On my blog entry entitled Rough Day with Eating Disorder Yesterday, a reader posted the following comment:
Isn’t it true that abuse survivors have more illness than those who are not abused? Right now I am into my fifth auto-immune disease diagnosis and I can tell you when I first hear the news I get mad at all those years I spent fearful, abused, anxious, panicked. It downright makes me want to scream even though I know intellectually that this tendency of my body may have been something I was born with and would happen no matter what. ~ Esther
I am sure that informal polls as child abuse survivor sites would show the answer is yes, but we don’t have to rely on informal polls to answer this question. Medical research is showing these results as well.
According to the Adults Surviving Child Abuse website,
Adults surviving child abuse are more likely to suffer from a range of physical health problems than other people. These illnesses include migraines, chronic pain, arthritis, chronic fatigue and irritable bowel syndrome. A recent survey of over 2500 older Australians with a history of physical and/or sexual abuse found that survivors were also more likely to suffer from three or more physical illnesses at once (Draper, Pirkis et al. 2008). ~ Adults Surviving Child Abuse
It makes sense because child abuse survivors do not know how to relax. We have a stress hormone constantly coursing through our veins. That has got to take a toll on our bodies physically over time.
I was not aware that my seemingly unending string of illnesses was related to the child abuse until I read this excerpt from the book Safe Passage to Healing by Chrystine Oksana:
Everything [in my adult life] was perfect – well, almost perfect. I was constantly sick, a condition I kept secret…I woke up every morning feeling dead. The hardest thing I had to do was get my lifeless body out of bed…The slightest cold weather would put me in bed…
I kept trying to find a reason for my illness. I had been such a healthy kid, always on the go, athletic. I almost never got sick. But after the age of eighteen, things began to change. I started getting colds, flus, muscle stiffness, depressions, and just an overall bad feeling…By thirty-five I was barely making it day to day. In search of a cure, I went from doctor to doctor, from test to test, only to be told, “Everything is normal. Continue to rest.” That’s what I’d heard for the past seventeen years as my condition worsened. ~ Safe Passage to Healing, pp. xvii & xviii
Chrystine Oksana goes on to share the same thing that is covered in the Adults Surviving Child Abuse article: The stress from the child abuse causes our brains to overproduce certain stress hormones. Over time, this takes a toll on our physical bodies, causing all sorts of physical ailments.
Since I have been through therapy and worked through many of my issues from the child abuse, my immune system has gotten stronger. Instead of staying sick throughout the winter months, I generally suffer from one or two colds. Instead of each cold lasting for three weeks, I can now kick a cold in under a week. So, there is hope. It is angering, though, to know that the aftereffects of the child abuse echo on for decades.
Other blog entries on illness:
- Childhood Illnesses in Abusive Households
- Child Abuse History, Illnesses, and Self-hate
- Illness after Child Abuse and Fear of Not Being Believed
- The Mind-Body Connection after Child Abuse
Ties Between Physical Illness and Emotional Distress after Child Abuse
Photo credit: Lynda Bernhardt






Faith, Thanks for posting. While this is certainly true, we have to realize that we have the capacity for healing and knowing ourselves in ways other people may not. There are of course many negatives to recovering from child abuse. But there are some strengths we gain which, I hope, offset some of that. On another blog, the poster talked about parenting and how we tend to have good empathy skills and can listen well. Personally, I also believe that we have the capacity to achieve mindfulness states that are beyond what non-dissociative people may get to experience. Paul.
Hi, mindparts.
Yes, I fully agree. In fact, I shocked my yoga instructor with how easily I was able to learn deep meditation techniques without any real guidance. We definitely have gifts.
Take care,
- Faith
I can totally relate to the “dead in the morning” thing. I’ve been that way my whole life. I still am, even on medication. Now it is manageable, but still my worst time of day.
Yoga is great isn’t it? I used to go to class regularly years ago, and I really miss it. Good reminder, I have to find an instructor.
Peace,
Mia
“Our Children Are Our Future, but their well-being in OUR Society Continues to decline. The health and safety
of our children is EVERYONE’S RESPONSIBILITY. Please HELP to ensure Healthy, Safe Children in OUR COMMUNITY by taking action as an individual, group or business”. (c) 1993 by Paul M. McLaughlin. Stop Child Abuse NOW! by a handicapped since 1975 to 1999 from Donora, Pennsylvania to Portland, Oregon.
Photo of Paul M. McLaughlin and his street campaighn on Child Abuse.
http://www.efn.org/~scan/images/paul3.jpg
For many years, I had no hope for a better future. I thought I would never grow up, that I would always live in a world of pain and hate. You see, I was a battered and abused child. I was placed into two foster homes and later returned to my parents. I almost lost the chance to grow up. At the age of two, I was admitted to a hospital–malnourished, battered, almost dead. I later wished that I was dead. I was placed on top of a hot stove, choked with a rope around my neck, beaten two to four times almost every day. This physical and mental abuse made up almost 18 years of my childhood. My older brother and sister were not abused. Stop Child Abuse NOW! since 1975 to 1999
from Donora (Pittsburgh), Pennsylvania to Portland, Oregon by a Handicapped. Paul M. McLaughlin graduated from Donora High School in 1970 at the age of 21, Special Education. Paul’s twin sister graduated in 1967.
One individual who makes his story know in many ways, from radio to TV is Paul McLaughlin, “The Abuse Man”. Whether it is standing on a street corner or talking with someone at a grocery store Paul is always on the job to make people aware of abuse and telling them what to do about it. He is an inspiration to us all. Read his story of abuse and see for yourself what abuse is. Then ask yourself this question, “How long are we going to sit around and let this happen?”
Register-Guard newspaper in Eugene, Oregon about Paul M. McLaughlin
from Donora (Pittsburgh), Pennsylvania to Portland, Oregon.
“The Child Abuse Man” Story 6-14- 92
http://www.efn.org/~scan/abused00.htm
RGLetters@guardnet.com
The Valley Independent Newspaper from
Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
Area Native’s Mission Is To Help Abused Kids 4-21-07
http://www.pittsburghlive.com/x/pittsburghtrib/search/s_503910.html
“I Was Loved In The Midst of Suffering”
1989 by Janice Lemke for computer and Newspaper for
Paul M. McLaughlin
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Paul M. McLaughlin
Stop Child Abuse NOW!
298 Hunington Ave.
Eugene, Oregon 97405-4055
‘ILLNESS From Childhood Abuse’
Had almost lost my life two times during my infant years at the age of a few months old and again at the age of 5 years old in
Donora, (Pittsburgh), Pennsylvania. Had been in school for 21 years of my life trying to learn to read, spelling, and other school subjects. Had graduated from Donora High School in 1970 at the age of 21 — SPECIAL EDUCATION. Twin sister graduated at the age of 18 years age. After leaving an abusive
envirnment had taken into my own hands to learn to read, write, typing. ‘I Wanted Revenge to those Who Did Wrong To Me by my Abuser (Mother).
Have learned that the slowness came from severe abuse. Brain injury and other ugly health problems. As of now at the age of 60, have epilepsy for over 25 years and now have MS. Had to relearn to walk, speaking, vision lost and other ugly illness with MS. The large scars on my face, scalp, body, mind has shown many that slowness can be shown in mentally mind of a abused child. http://www.efn.org/~scan scan@efn.org
Paul M. McLaughlin
Stop Child Abuse NOW!
298 Hunington Ave.
Eugene, Oregon 97405
Interestingly, here is my latest realization. DID worked. I was so able to create illusions/fantasies in my life that I did not have to face life. And healing from that is a most unusual experience. It is fact that I face things now that are true and real and because I am sixty years behind in that practise, suffer for it. Yet I continue to be here. It is uncomfortable, heart-breaking at times, but I move here by choice most of the time now.
What my grandchildren experience as disappointment or whatever is what I tucked away because that is how I survived. I could not distinguish between the abuse and the regular. So sometimes my reactions are that of a child. What is good is I move forward quickly. So when I learned I had another auto-immune disease I was angry. Now I’m not. I’m just trying to figure out how to be as comfortable as I can understanding, deeply understanding, that this pain is regular, good ole normal, everyday pain. That is the gift of healing.
Sometimes I yearn for the fantasy because I felt stronger then. Meeting myself as a frail yet hopeful human is work. I’m up for it most of the time. Care to all.
Wow! Amazing… I get sick so much.. and what you said and quoted is so me. migraines, asthma, colds, infection, it feels like Im going to die sometimes. ugh. this is just getting worse all the time.
Good Day,
Good day,
I am sending you this link regarding a petition to stop child abuse. This is not my petition but one I do support. The creator of the petitions goal is to gain worldwide attention and requires one million signatatures. The petition has a long ways to go.
Thanks for your consideration. If you have any questions please contact the creator of the petition, you will find that with the following link.
http://www.thepetitionsite.com/1/wakeup-international-petition-adults
Have a good day
Arnelle Durocher
Ah yes many Forgotten Australian’s live with health issues.
Yet are essentailly ignored by hospitals and health professionals in so many areas.