When I was going through the healing process, a visual flashback was obvious to me. I was suddenly reliving something traumatic. I would “see” and experience the event happening again while, at the same time, knowing that I was safe in my bed. I did not pick up on non-visual flashbacks quite as quickly. I had them for a long time before I knew what they were.
For example, I would sometimes taste cigarette smoke in my mouth, even though I have never smoked. When I would taste the cigarette smoke, I would feel panicky but not know why. The answer came later when I recovered the memory of my abuser almost smothering me to death. She was punishing my younger sister for some perceived non-compliance by smothering me with a pillow. I did not even bother to fight it because I knew that it would only make things worse. My abuser was so caught up in upsetting my sister that she failed to realize that she took things too far.
From here, the memory moves to the ceiling. I saw her yelling at my limp body, but my body did not respond. She then removed the pillow and checked to see if I was breathing – I wasn’t. She dragged my body to the bathroom and told my sister to go upstairs and get my parents. Meanwhile, she gave me mouth-to-mouth and resuscitated me, all the while telling me that I was not worth going to prison over. She had recently smoked a cigarette, so when I came to, I could taste the cigarette smoke in my mouth and lungs.
She told my parents that she had found me on the floor in the bathroom. She said that I must have slipped and bumped my head on the toilet. I was disoriented and said nothing. My parents told me to be more careful and left my sister and me downstairs to play.
Today, I have been having more emotional flashbacks surrounding this event. I don’t know what has triggered it today. All I know is that I will suddenly start feeling like I cannot breathe, even though I can. Even as I take slow, deep breaths, a part of myself feels as if it is being deprived of air. It is a really weird feeling.
Isn’t post-traumatic stress disorder fun?
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I mostly get non-visual flashbacks and they were really confusing for a long time. Now I usually can figure out what’s going on and which memory/event a sensation is tied to, but it’s taken years. Thanks for writing about this as I think lots of people who don’t experience PTSD think the only type of flashbacks people have are visual.
Faith, Thanks again for your help the other night. Here’s that link: http://www.empty-memories.nl/didmpd.html
I hope you’re feeling freer of flashbacks and nightmares today. I too procrastinate going to bed, tied in with resistance to body awareness I think.
Wishing you safe comfort.
[…] PTSD and tagged: flashbacks, PTSD, traumatic memories, triggers I read a post today called Non-Visual Flashbacks after Child Abuse. Everyone can understand what a visual flashback might be, even if they have never experienced one. […]
faith this happened to me over the weekend. it was scary cause i felt triggered even though i didnt know why exactly thankfully you had written this first. it was as you said i was taking stuff in by my senses.. ugh this is horrible. i want it to be ok, to stop.
Somehow i missed the point. Probably lost in translation 🙂 Anyway … nice blog to visit.
cheers, Dump.
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I finally started trying to take control of my emotional disorders. I have very little memory of my sexual abuse, all forms. The one thing I go on is my gut feeling and emotional flashbacks. With my supportive husband years to come I feel I can see a break through in finding out the turth. It’s nice to know that when my father told me I was crazy it was him that was screwed up, Yeah!!!!! If you’d been told you have Bi-polar and believe something is missing don’t give up. I have PTSD and Disscociative Identity Dis.